I’ve been friends with Mrs. Retelle’s daughter, Patrice, for close to 60 years. When I was 13, the Retelles took their 9 children on a camping trip to the White Mountains and decided “heck, what’s one more.” Mr. and Mrs. Retelle treated me as one of their own. It was a week I will never forget for the good times shared with their family and the kindness they showed me.
Two more memories of Mrs. Retelle:
When I first started hanging out with Patrice, I’d go to her house where I’d find her mother in the kitchen ironing away sheets, shirts,slacks and even handkerchiefs. While she did, she talked and dispensed her no-nonsense, common sense opinions and remarks. I was in awe of her ironing ability (she made great creases!) and, of course, her ability to make me laugh.
Many years later, after the birth of my firstborn daughter, I went to Patrice’s house to meet-up to get a reprieve from motherly duties for a night out to dinner with my best friend. There was Mrs. Retelle, rocking Elizabeth, Patrice’s firstborn, in her arms. I casually said how I felt like I was on a “super-train speeding down the tracks being a new Mom,”to which she replied, “I’m still on that train, I’ve never gotten off.”
Well, Mrs. Retelle, it’s ok now. You can finally disembark. You’ve made all the right stops, at all the right stations of your life. You so overwhelmingly deserve to get off the super-train’s tracks, and rest now, at this, your journey’s end. The “conductor” above has seen that you’ve done a stellar job! Your family is a testament to that fact.
— Denise Rush